A guide to the (unwritten) rules of a Danish workplace

If you are new to working life in Denmark, you may notice that many important rules are not written down. This guide helps international professionals understand both formal rules and everyday workplace culture in Danish organisations.
Before you read this guide to unwritten rules, we recommend getting a hang of the written ones. Every workplace has a range of guides, policies and agreements that help you understand your rights in your new workplace.
Read: The documents you need to know at your new job
How to navigate the unwritten rules
You will quickly discover that there are so-called unwritten rules at your new workplace. These also existed at your previous workplace, but you probably did not think about them, as they had become a natural way for you to work and interact with others.
Unwritten rules include everything you cannot read about in contracts, agreements, staff handbooks and various policies.
These may include unwritten rules about dress code, meeting times, working from home, doctor's appointments or leaving early for a child's birthday party.
For instance:
- Is it acceptable to leave early if you have finished your tasks? And should you note it in your calendar?
- Should you always ask your manager for permission, or is independence expected?
- Is silence in meetings agreement or disagreement?
To get a handle on the unwritten rules, ask your colleagues how they usually do things. But be aware that colleagues who have been at the workplace for a long time are no longer aware that these are unwritten rules.
So ask a colleague who has not been there for long and who can remember what it is like to be new. All in all, it is a good idea to team up with the second-newest person in the department.
Working in a Danish or Multicultural Workplace
Many Danish workplaces are international, but Danish work culture often sets the tone. Understanding this culture can help you collaborate more effectively and feel more confident in your new job.
Flat hierarchies and informal communication
Danish workplaces are typically characterised by flat hierarchies. Managers are often approachable, and it is generally acceptable – and expected – that employees share opinions, ask questions and challenge ideas respectfully. Calling managers by their first name is common and does not signal a lack of respect.
If you come from a more hierarchical culture, this informality may feel unfamiliar. However, silence or reluctance to speak up may be interpreted as lack of engagement rather than politeness.
Trust-based working culture
In Denmark, work is often organised around trust rather than control. This means that:
- You are expected to manage your own tasks and time
- Working hours may be flexible
- Performance is often judged on results, not visibility
Asking many detailed questions about rules can sometimes be perceived as insecurity rather than diligence. Observing colleagues and asking open-ended questions such as “How do you usually do this here?” is often a good approach.
Feedback and directness
Danes are often described as direct, but feedback can also be subtle. You may receive limited praise, even when you are doing well. This does not mean your work is unappreciated.
If you are unsure how your performance is perceived, it is acceptable to ask your manager directly for feedback.
Language and inclusion
Even if English is the working language, informal conversations, jokes or quick discussions may happen in Danish. This can feel excluding, even if it is not intended. It is perfectly acceptable to politely ask colleagues to switch to English.
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How to deal with unspoken narratives
You may also be employed in a place where you sense that there are some unspoken narratives or a history that affects your colleagues. This could be, for example, the dismissal of a colleague, a dramatic organisational change or cases of harassment.
You may need to be careful not to ask too directly about these things. You should also consider whether it is necessary for you to know anything about it at all.
If it is just for your own understanding, it is wisest to be patient, as you will probably find out in due course.
However, if the unspoken stories are a persistent barrier to you being able to do your job, or if they negatively affect your relationships, you should ask about them with colleagues with whom you have built a good relationship.
You must recognise that it is your colleagues' story, not yours, and you should not take it on as your own. In fact, you should enjoy being new and enjoy not being weighed down by a heavy history.
Feeling uncertain is part of starting a new job – especially in a new country. Understanding Danish workplace culture takes time, and asking questions is a strength, not a weakness.